Prashant
The #Metoo vs Due Process : My story and my life as
the child of the woman fighting a sexual harassment case for 11 years
My name is Prashant. I
am sharing this story as my contribution to the voices of #MeToo - a
movement that is described as unprecedented. I dedicate this
piece to every Working Mother who has singularly raised her children braving
through the many unspoken odds and challenges which also include various form
of sexual harassment.
At
the outset, I apologise for the length of this story but it encompasses the
journey of 11 years. I was only 10 in 2005 when my mother accepted an offer
made by KPMG India. She is a single mother since her divorce in 2001.
Let
me start with an unprecedented event that the Nation watched on January 12,
2018. The
senior Judges of the Supreme Court of India came out to express their
concerns and with a plea that that Judiciary’s independence should be
maintained.
The
Nation moved on beyond the headlines. But there are many whose rights and
remedies remain under jeopardy as they embark on their journey to seek justice
- legally and rightfully.
My mother's fight was disrupted with case files being lost/ misplaced/ not
found from various forums including the
Court Registry – Supreme Court, Delhi High and Bombay High Court. My mother was
being defamed and humiliated on the internet since 2007 at back of her original case files of her
divorce of 2001 also being ‘ not found’
in Chandigarh Court and which came to be found only in September 2018 after an
escalation to the concerned High Court.
Would
it be unfair to seek a probe by an independent body ?
1. The unprecedented fight of my mother and our
survival through the challenges :
My
mother has been fighting a sexual harassment case against KPMG India for last
11 years as per Due Process and as per legal advice that that she received.
Her first advocate was Dr. Purnima Advani - ex Chairperson of National
Commission for Women ( NCW) during 2002 - 2005. My mother was privileged to
have some of the best known names in the legal fraternity to represent her.
However, the case has never come to the stage of being heard on merit of her
complaint. It was kept entangled in writ petitions filed by KPMG India in
Bombay High Court by KPMG India / individual accused who knew that the Court cannot
look into the merit of the complaint in a writ petition. Whilst my mother was engaged in defending
the said writ petitions from time to time, the case files and vital evidence,
witness statements and testimonials were declared as having gone missing from the
office of the Maharashtra State Women Commission, first in 2008 and again in 2015. No inquiry was
conducted to determine the motive and conspiracy behind the loss of case files
despite direction from Women and Child Department- Maharashtra in May 2009 and
Women and Child Ministry - New Delhi in March 2010. When my mother chose to file a writ petition 5892/2015 in Delhi High Court in May 2015 seeking restoration of her case files, she has been stalked and harrowed.
I
am not from legal background. I am not sure if the pattern in which my
mother's case files have been lost/ misplaced is normal. To me it shows a
pattern to keep my mother deprived of her right to defend - something that the
Principle of Natural Justice requires as the bare minimum. Something that is allowed even to the accused of heinous crimes in the legal system that we have.
(a) Mutual consent divorce
in 2001 in Chandigarh District Court in which my mother was Petitioner no. 2- the original
files were declared missing from record room and she was able to secure the
complete set only on September 2, 2018 after a complaint was escalated to
the Principal Judge in March 2018. At the back of such sabotage, her
reputation was torn apart on the internet in complete invasion of her privacy
and during the pendency of her case before the NCW and MSCW. The affidavit given by my paternal grandfather and my father were of not even referred to by the Police and NCW;
(b) Writ petition
963/2008 filed by my mother in Bombay High Court on April 8, 2008 seeking expeditious
inquiry into her complaint with NCW dated June 2007. This was stalled by a
counter writ by KPMG India 1107/2008 which was eventually dismissed as
'infructuous' in November 2010 after the round in Supreme Court in SLP
20416/2008. My mother's affidavit dated October 12, 2010 and also the affirmation
register of that month were declared as 'not found/ missing' by
the Registry under a reply to a RTI dated January 2015. My
mother was advised to withdraw her writ petition conditional on the liberty to
prosecute her complaint before NCW, who was Respondent no. 3 in writ petition
963/2008. KPMG India did not challenge the order of dismissal of their
writ petition 1107/2008 dated November 2010;
(c) Criminal application
325/2013 filed by my mother in March 2013 in Bombay High Court seeking the order to condone
delay in revision application be set aside as it mis-stated the delay to be 46
days instead of 4.5 years. An order was passed that ' mutually
agreed' to file fresh application which was revised on May 6, 2013 after it was
pointed out that no consent was given. The certified copy section failed to
give her copy of the May 6, 2013 order till it was escalated to the the
Registrar General;
(d) Criminal writ petition 2928/
2013 filed by my mother in August 2013 in Bombay High Court seeking
expeditious criminal Trial in the chargesheet filed by Mumbai Police in
December 2007 against the perpetrators of sexual harassment - Mr. Vikram
Uttamsingh and others. This was disposed on November 29, 2013 stating that as
an application was filed by my mother seeking further investigation, she can
request the Trial Court to expedite the Trial. The order drew reference to
my mother's application seeking further investigation. However, the certified
copy section of Bombay High Court refused to provide a copy stating that it is not taken
on record. This order was passed just one day after an order was passed by Bombay High Court giving an ex- parte stay
on NCW inquiry in the second writ petition filed by KPMG India in November 2013. KPMG India stated they are aggrieved by an order that
hatNCW had passed on October 26, 2013 to
'adjudicate' and hence, exceeded it's jurisdiction. As per the Chatwal Committee
report to NCW dated April 2016 taken on record by Delhi High Court on November 17, 2016, such an order does not exist;
(e) Writ petition
5892/2015 in Delhi High Court seeking restoration of records stated to be
lost/ misplaced by NCW. NCW submitted that it had set up a Fact Finding
Committee under Mr. O.P. Chatwal and would take action based on their report.
In June 2015 when my mother applied for certified copy of the proceedings, and
orders, the application itself was stated to be ' not found'. Later the case
file was stated to be ' Lost' in a written reply by the Registry. It came to be
found only after the matter was escalated. This petition was disposed on July
19, 2015 with an order that NCW would comply with the order within 12 weeks.
NCW closed the matter that no action was required to be taken based on
instruction of ' Competent Authority'.
In
sum and substance, petitions filed by my mother are tossed around leading
to her efforts being rendered meaningless without any outcome. Her
right of say/ defence has been consistently obstructed even where she is a
respondent ( in capacity as the original informant/ complainant) in writ
petitions filed by other side seeking quashing of the Inquiry/ Trial in the
Bombay High Court.
As
a layperson, I am given to understand that writ lies against the State. It is
also observed that the say filed by the public prosecutor in the writ
petitions filed by KPMG India and accused is also not found on record or
remains untagged.
Mumbai
Mirror, the media platform which allowed the launch of cyber attacks on my
mother since the reported arrest of accused Mr. Vikram Uttamsingh on
October 9, 2007 have also denied her the right of say. This
news came just after NCW transferred the case to Maharashtra State Women
Commission ( MSCW) with my mother's complaint, replies and rejoinder to
complete the inquiry within 60 days and submit a report. Since, then the matter
has been kept entangled in writ petitions, obstructing any move of my
mother to go outside the State of Maharashtra.
2.
Second
inquiry by NCW pursuant to TOI impact (2013 to date) – Found and Lost files
game :
There
has been complete quiet of the public - spirited activists who want women to
speak and also the media. TOI took credit for getting NCW to find the lost case
files in January 2013 and set up a new Inquiry Committee headed by Mrs. Nirmala
Samant Prabhavalkar. This news item followed just after the Ministry of
Information Technology and Communication confirmed that the defamatory blogs
were blocked under an order of the Magistrate Court.
In
February 2015, NCW declared the Files as 'Lost' for second time after NCW
inquiry was quashed in August 2014 in the writ filed by KPMG India. NCW failed
to challenge the order of Bombay High Court despite the findings of the Chatwal
Committee taken on record by Delhi High Court in writ petition 5892/2015 filed
by my mother seeking restoration of the case files.
In
April 2015, Mr. Vikram Uttamsingh filed a criminal writ petition seeking
quashing of criminal case and stated that issue of process order by the
Magistrate taking cognisance of the chargesheet filed by Police on December 15,
2007 is ' missing'. However, before NCW, Mr. Vikram Uttamsingh had submitted on
October 26, 2013 that the process is issued by Magistrate and criminal Trial is
to commence and hence NCW should adjourn the matter sine- die.
TOI
reported the development through this news item in April 2015. Thereafter,
there has been no update on the proceedings in Delhi High Court to seek
restoration of the Lost/ Misplaced case files from NCW.
https://www.livemint.com/Politics/v8RrlLY5QvAj4JtgRsMhRK/What-happens-when-women-complain-of-sexual-harassment.html
In
2016, the Fact Finding Committee headed by Mr. O.P. Chatwal ( retd DIG -
Central Bureau of Investigation) set up by NCW pursuant to the writ petition
5892/2015 filed in Delhi High Court held Mrs. Nirmala Samant Prabhavalkar and
the members of the Inquiry Committee members as being responsible for loss of
original case files.
This
would leave anyone wondering was the real purpose of the NCW inquiry to give
justice to my mother.
3. Identity abuse to
Identity Theft and creating an environment of fear and paranoi to break down
the victim :
Truly,
we are in the era of greater Transparency and Better Governance. There are
handles and blogs to report. The email address and mobile number shared by my
mother have led to creation of multiple fake FB profiles and social media
accounts.
It was only in November 2015 that a case of
identity theft and impersonation registered by Mumbai Police in November
2015.
A
recent reply from NCW states that 569 complaints were filed under the same name
as my mother – with variants in spelling and surname. It is not known what
process does NCW follow to verify the identity of the complainant as being
genuine. They refused to provide further details citing section 11 of RTI Act.
The
social community that we belong to ( Maheshwari) was also being used
to mediate on a matter that pending inquiry and Trial before NCW and
Magistrate Court. The police's recent suggestion is that my mother should
change her name and identity to be at peace and better still she should move to
a foreign location.
There
is hacking, blackmail, threat, isolation and gag.
Surely,
we are in a progressive era where there are campaign 'beti
bachao, beti padoa' had by Women and Child Ministry which is said to have been
an outright success. NCW has been deliberating on a new Act to
protect the Rights of the Single Mother etc.
Has
NCW also developed the norms to decide criteria of 'Fitment' for
victims to voice sexual harassment ?
Yet,
there is no outrage as is normally seen when a politically inclined /
affiliated men use words to describe women as dented and painted, 100%
tunch maal and many other misogynistic comments.
4. The conduct of certain NCW officers/ members
raises several doubts about whose rights was the Institution protecting :
Had
NCW replied to the RTI dated December 12, 2013 in which my mother had sought
copy of the NCW order dated October 26, 2013 ( aggrieved by which KPMG India
went to the Court in their second writ petition), the outcome of the Bombay
high Court petition may have been different in August 2014.
It
was only after the matter went to the Central Information Commission ( CIC) and
an order was passed on December 30, 2014, that NCW replied on February 1, 2015
that case files were Lost/ Not Found / Misplaced. It remained silent about the
existence of it's order dated October 26,2013.
Despite
a pending RTI application with NCW since December 12, 2013, the NCW inquiry
came to be quashed on August 8, 2014 stating that my mother had liberty to
pursue the police cases of cyber abuse and criminal case of sexual harassment
that are State vs Accused.
The
fact also is that KPMG India is working with the Government on
many projects. This was also revealed by an officer of the Ministry of
Women and Child. Can there be fairness ?
It
is NCW who had advised my mother’s advocate to file a FIR and for which an
opinion was taken from the Chief Prosecutor.
My
mother's right to prosecute criminal case is seen to be
sabotaged in a criminal writ petition 1222/2015 filed by Mr. Vikram
Uttamsingh in April 2015. The Registrar General of Bombay High
Court told my mother in October 2017 when she placed her application to
argue in person that in a police case, the original informant is not required
to be heard as the offence is against the State.
In
May 2015, my mother was compelled to seek restoration of her case files through
a writ petition 5892/2015 in Delhi High Court. For failure of NCW to keep safe
custody of the case files, my mother at her own cost and time was compelled to
invoke this remedy.
On
December 15, 2015, NCW through an affidavit submitted to Delhi High Court that
it had established a Fact Finding Committee under Mr. O.P. Chatwal ( retd DIG-
CBI).
In
October 2016, there was a news item that KPMG Global steps in to take charge of
Indian operations.
On
November 17, 2016 Delhi High Court took on record the Chatwal Committee report
and directed my mother to take inspection of the NCW records and determine the
final list of missing documents.
Delhi
High Court disposed the writ petition 5892/2015 petition on July 19,
2017 directing NCW to comply with the findings and recommendations of Chatwal
Committee's report within 12 weeks. On July 28, 2017 NCW send a
letter to the DGP – Maharashtra seeking a report on the cyber cases of identity
theft and hacking. NCW closed the case through a reply dated February 2018 and
July 2018 stating that they did not wish to take any further action as much
time has elapsed.
Since
then, both the NCW and DGP – Maharashtra have remained incommunicado and
inaccessible with not a single meeting having been allowed. Even request for a
meeting with the Police Commissioner are simply diverted to the DCP - cyber
crime, whose laxity is a subject- matter of escalation. Since the time of our
interaction with cyber police station in Mumbai in 2010, the first dedicated
DCP was appointed in January 2016. Between January 2016 and November 2018,
there have been change of 4 officers at level of Deputy Commissioner of Police
that we have met, the longest serving being Mr Akbar Pathan ( May 2017 to
November 2018).
In
February 2018, when my mother sought copies of the minutes of hearing held by
NCW since July 2014, NCW rejected her application under Right to Information
stating it is fiduciary in nature. Again CIC intervened and passed an order in
May 2018 ( case number 610721). CIC held
that " Fiduciary question
does not arise at all. It is the duty of the NCW to say what it is doing. It is
the right of not only the complainant but also of every person to know what
action was taken by the NCW on the complaint. The Supreme Court, High Courts
and Police Stations also reveal what cases were filed and what happened along
with date of hearing, names of the parties and their advocates along with full
text of judgment. Is this fiduciary related information and people should not
ask for it".
Immediately, thereafter, the NCW's website crashed for about a
month. Later, in July 2018 NCW reluctantly posted the minutes of
hearing, the tour details of the members of the Commission and numeric count of complaints received with their status.
I am taking a pause here to re- iterate my question -
where is the Due Process for victims who dare to speak ?
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5. # MeToo - is it an
alternative to a tardy and unfair and insensitive legal delivery system ?
I
have been watching the #MeToo slow down as a defamation suit came to
filed by the High Profile alleged Harasser. Keeping a matter entangled in
litigation in a tardy system such as we have in India, works reasonably well
for any High Profile Harasser (alleged) even as the victim is subject to
repeated harassment and disruption in her Right to Life and Liberty.
If
the victim happens to be a ‘Divorcee’ or ‘ Single’ then a reverse profiling
follows. The disruptive forces under the name of 'legal defence' often are
combined with unconnected parties including the wife and family of the High
Profile Harassers and certain disgruntled colleagues who find it a matter of
convenience to throw in their hat to give a good character certificate to
the alleged harasser/(s). The victim is literally stalked to
identify neighbours, maids, drivers, relatives and just about
anyone who can offer some adverse comments about the conduct of the
victim and which can be used on media and the internet blogs to create
a perception that is a contrast to the reality and also contrary to the real
evidence in support of her complaint against the harasser. The victim's
character must pass the parameters of patriarchal mindset to be
considered ' Fit' to allege sexual harassment.
I
am not attempting to be the spokesperson for my mother. I am sure she is
capable to speak for herself. But this is my perspective of having watched the
journey that my mother undertook to seek justice and when I got sucked into
the most undesired incident that was precipitated in Bombay High Court on
April 23, 2014 in full know of the advocates in the court room and the court
reporters. However, there was no reaction to the unprecedented event that
transpired though NCW advocate did put across it’s dissent in the written
submission on April 30, 2014. But nothing what others said or submitted or
expressed was considered or reported by the media. There was no outrage.
I
was made to sit in the Court room and hear the 2 hours of argument of the other
side counsel. I had merely gone to submit an adjournment application with the
medical certificate of my mother whose RBC was a low of 7 and she was advised
rest for 3 weeks. I was made to listen to legal arguments though I am not a law
student. I was not allowed to rebut, either. I was helpless and seethed in
anger that my mother had never shared with me what she has been enduring all by
herself. My mother spoke to an activist from AIDWA who said that ‘it happens’.
Another lady advocate said that ‘ It will make the kid stronger’. I guess, it
was all ok.
On
the next date i.e May 9, 2014 , the Judge said that it was time for parties to
'move on'. I have been wondering since then, if the end - result of a fight
straddled in writ petitions against the State are dismissed as infructuous
is that victim should ' Move on', then # MeToo is possibly the only
option that a victim has. On June 13, 2014 my mother's personal details were
compromised to create profiles on Matrimonial website. Is this what was implied
by ' moving on' for a divorcee fighting a sexual harassment case.
Between
June 27 and July 4, 2014 the original case files went missing from Bombay High
Court writ department. On July 4, 2014 an order was passed giving more
time to the parties to have a mutual dialogue. On August 4, 2014 the
CEO of KPMG India informed my mother that she can inform the Court
that the dialogue has failed and to proceed with the pronouncement of
order.
On
August 8, 2014 Bombay High Court, NCW quashed the NCW inquiry on a ground that
NCW had exceeded it's jurisdiction by passing an order dated October 26, 2013
to adjudicate and give reliefs to the victim. The Chatwal Committee has held in
2016 that no copy of the order can be given under her RTI
application dated December 12, 2013 as no order was passed by NCW. The NCW Act
states that all orders are passed/ authenticated by Member Secretary or
designate officer.
From
the above, can it be said that victim is abusing the court process at her cost
and time and with risk to her life and liberty ?
One
of her ex- colleagues since 1992 stated that 'bail' is given to an accused
so that he can live in the society with respect. Sure, but should be at cost of
demolishing the victim's sense of selfhood and sabotage of her Right
to constitutional remedy. These are serious questions and especially for
those who want victims to follow Due Process.
What
I am stating is nothing new. Neither am I the spokeperson here. It is her fight
and her Right under sabotage.
But, this is my perspective as the child who has seen the
challenges faced by my mother who followed a Due Process. She did
not name and shame the perpetrators though she had more than enough to talk
about and write about though. She was trained by corporates she worked for, to
follow the Due Process. She has been too straight - forward and trusting and
above all having faith in the legal delivery system.
She
was told by KPMG India International Ethics Committee in June 2007 to pursue
the legal course as they did not have jurisdiction over KPMG India and yet the
legal process is being sabotaged.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2017/nov/08/women-complain-sexual-harassment-branded-a-troublemaker
In
the last 11 years, no inquiry on merit of evidence has been allowed to progress
either in NCW or the criminal case against the individuals perpetrators due to
writ petitions filed by KPMG India and the individual accused seeking quashing
of the inquiry. I did not know then but now I understand that in a writ
jurisdiction, the Court cannot look into the merit of the allegations. But what
has remained and continued was cyber harassment, defamation and abuse to my
mother who happens to be a Divorcee and Single by choice since 2001.
This
status of Divorcee was not of any consequence to any Employer who hired
her and it did not affect the quality of her work deliverable. But it
became the talking point only because she sought an inquiry
into sexual harassment that she endured in her 14 months in KPMG India.
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6. Through my eyes as the child of a
victim of criminal conspiracy :
I
am sharing my own experience of having closely watched my mother – a Divorcee
and Single by choice, fight a sexual harassment case against KPMG India for
last 11 years. All that she was seeking was an inquiry but she was named and
shamed on media and internet platforms through comments and posts – which were
unmoderated, unverified, unsubstantiated and the Mumbai cyber police and NCW
stood onlookers to the devious design to systematically break her down.
For
a ‘High Profile’ defendant to resort to such tactic to stall an Inquiry by NCW
who they refer to as Toothless is indeed very strange. My mother dared
to speak out in 2006 when the environment was not so enabling and she took the
risk despite being Single working parent with responsibility of a minor child.
Since then she has stood her ground.
To me, my mother has never been scared to take
risks and bear the outcome of decision that she took. She has surged
ahead with a conviction despite all criticism and bickering, within and
outside to make way for herself and to create an identity of her own - an
identity that came to be abused, bashed and stolen. Maybe the course she
chose is termed as going against the wind or unconventional or challenging
status- quo.
My mother broke the convention of the 'conservative'
family. She was the First person in the Family to be a CA. She told me that at
that time when she appeared for her Sunday examination of CA in Kolkatta, there
were just 3 -4 women in the big room. The commerce stream was not even open for
co-education in St. Xavier's - Kolkatta.
My mother was the First in the Family to have an
inter- caste marriage. It was not easy as it met with threat of
suicide by my grandmother who eventually came around and such that her
relationship with my mother remained post the divorce which she said was
with her son. She was a doctorate in Hindi and an academician and always
encouraged my mother to be financially independent.
My mother was the First in the Family to opt for mutual
consent divorce in 2001. She did not seek any maintenance for herself or for
me as she was sure of her competence and capability to earn for
ourselves. The divorce was taken after having invested herself in the
relationship for 9 years and much deliberation by both sides.
It
has never been easy before or after that as a Divorcee – an adjective used
to bully her in most uncivil and cruel manner.
She is the First to have taken upon herself the role of
single mother who has performed duties diligently.
She is the First in the Family to have raised her
voice against an injustice caused to her at workplace. But little
did she know that what was to follow and that have her wonder, has the mindset
really changed ?
So,
does all this portray my mother as a 'difficult woman', of the kind that this
article by veteran writer and columnist, Shobha Dey.
I am the child of this difficult woman who has been
brought up differently. I may also risk attracting a few labels.
Should
I wait to express my views on the deplorable state of
affairs after my mother is dead. I choose to say it now and
through this note as the one who has closely watched the fight of 11 years and
have also been affected. I wear the bruise of the backlash unleashed upon my
mother causing upon me a victimisation of a different kind. I can only describe
this " Ordinary people being put to extra- ordinary situations "
when they take those in position of Power.
The
fight of my mother is one of David vs Goliath - a fight of
unequal. Instead of being applauded for the courage, consistency and
conviction, my mother was named and shamed and defamed starting the revelation
of name and photo on the front page of Mumbai Mirror on October 9, 2007 whilst
reporting the news of arrest of Mr. Vikram Uttamsingh in the criminal case
registered by Mumbai Police. Since then we have continued to be targeted and
harassed to cause withdrawal of this case as if the arrest of accused
followed by cyber abuse to the victim was the ultimate objective of the FIR and
not for it go to Trial.
Certainly,
this may be an act of Bravery – an adjective that many have used to describe
those who have spoken out. But, should this leave her a martyr – bare to the
soul ?
Those
who have interacted with me at different points in time, may have heard me
voice some of the concerns that plague the justice delivery system. Some
wondered about the reason for such a passionate rant, at which point I may have
told you about my mother’s experiences with respect to case of sexual
harassment that she has been pursuing against a MNC.
In
this fight, there was also ‘Me’ who remained an observer even as our Right to
Life and it’s Means to it were under attack.
As
an introduction of myself, I have always said that I am brought up by a single
parent – my mother. There is no one else who has contributed to me
welfare and well-being and for me to be what I am and how I am.
I
continue to be affected by the games that played out in the name of
legal defense and one such ploy has been to make my mother’s divorce a
matter of public rebuke and humiliation, without calling for our say and
verification. I am the witness to the divorce and how my mother has conducted
herself all through so far as my father and his family is concerned. And many
of the advocates on both sides happened to be women whilst the matter of
Inquiry before Women Commission remained in litigation for 10 years. But none
did anything to stop the menace.
The
world is cruel but what can be more cruel than to hurt a person and then
gag her into a silence over threat to her child. Her silence led to the abuse
that she endured. She was abused when she chose to speak.
I
see and read a lot of posts of people around me, on social media platform, asking
victims to speak up, but I don’t think they, or the victim who contemplate the
decision of speaking up, fully understand of what this really means. By
speaking up, I mean following due process, utilizing the supposed remedies as
offered by Indian judiciary and actually embarking upon the journey to seek
justice against perpetrators that violated you.
Therefore,
to me speaking up doesn’t entail just naming the perpetrator publicly, or
sharing the victim’s experience anonymously. Through this write up, I am
making a sincere effort on my part to share through my mother’s journey,
what speaking up really means for a victim and for following a path that
she chose because she felt that she had lost a sense of her livelihood, a sense
of her identity and a sense of her 'being'. Something that she had build with
her own effort having been divorce in 2001 and not having taken a single penny
as maintenance either for herself or for me.
My
tone as I proceed is likely to change from being optimistic, to angry, to being
helpless, and finally to being dejected. Those emotions also happen to be the
rollercoaster that my mother went through, in exactly that order, over these 11
years. My purpose is simple here. The wave of feminism in the last decade
has taught us a lot. It started by creating awareness about gender, to
educating us, to maybe empowering us to speak up.
But what comes after this?
What have we been told about actually pursuing justice? I
personally have read little about the last piece which I think happens to be
most crucial, because it is about closure. Maybe some find closure in feeling
empowered to speak up, and for them that’s the end of it. But I would like to
believe for some others, the need for justice is the closure they desire, simply
because our democratic process allows for that. I hope not to infuse a
sense of pessimism in the readers through this, but we really hope that your
support can inspire renewed sense of optimism for my mother and me.
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7. My mother’s career and
personal life came under siege BECAUSE she spoke up:
1992 : My mother qualified as a Chartered Accountant
(CA). She joined EY in their audit and assurance practice. During audit of
Godrej & Boyce, sometime in 1997, she was offered a position in a new joint
venture in Chandigarh. It was in August 1997, that my mother joined Godrej. She
changed gear from advisory to industry stint. She left Bombay to chart her way
into an unknown terrain and an unfamiliar place. My first kindergarten school
started in Chandigarh and I won my first medal in a sports event at the age
of 5 given by the Finance Minister of Punjab. I was trained for
this event by my maternal grandfather - Nana, someone who has always been there
for me and my mother.
Incidentally, August 1997 was the month when a landmark
Judgement of Vishaka was delivered which was also referred to as judicial
activism and Pathbreaking. It referred to International convention for Elimination
of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW). It drew a set of
guidelines that Every Employer was mandated to follow to Prevent and Redress
Sexual Harassment at Workplace. These guidelines were declared as the Law of
the Land till a suitable legislation was formulated by the Executive. The
Executive took 16 years to bring out about the new Act, sometime in 2013.
January 2001: My parents underwent a separation by mutual
consent under section 13 B of the Hindu Marriage Act. I am a witness to the
divorce and the day remain etched in my mind when the Judge had asked me to
convey my choice of parent with whom I would like to stay. I looked at my
mother as she was the one who had held my hand always and nurtured me. She
stood there next to my father. He nodded in consent. This is the picture I
have of them being seen together, last in that winter of 2001.
October 2001: My father wrote a letter to my mother whilst
sending her a copy of the divorce decree and said that this was the only way to
set her free and to be happy. He wrote that his personal and professional life
has been reduced to shambles due to atrocity he faced at home and that he
was inclined to move out. My mother accepted the notarized photocopy as
the Final copy and with no reason to believe otherwise. It was only in 2010
when she was asked to produce a Court certified copy of the divorce decree
necessary for my passport renewal that she came to know that the original
divorce files were missing from the record room. After much escalation and
inquiry directed by the Punjab & Haryana Court in March 2018 resulting in
an administrative order on April 24, 2018, she was able to secure a complete
set of the divorce proceedings on September 2, 2018.
In the interim period and between the lost and found game
of her original divorce files, my mother has been subject to lot of abuse and
humiliation through unverified stories about her character and integrity. But
she had not comprehended that loss of the original records of her mutual
consent divorce could be a part of a larger conspiracy and the number of people
involved in it.
In August 2001, after a fruitful stint in Godrej, she
returned to Mumbai in 2001 and joined back EY. As my mother was
adapting to the significant transformation in her personal life, I was also coping
with the fact of being away from her for 3 years as I was not able to get
admission in a good school in Mumbai. We were both dealing with emotional and
psychological voids in our lives. It wasn’t the time of what’s app or Facebook.
She strove to create her own identity and space. She toiled through the
ranks of EY and her performance is well rated.
It was in mid – 2005, that a head-hunter firm, Hures
Consulting, began to call her for a position in KPMG India. Even though my
mother’s initial response to a potential shift was lukewarm, Vikram Uttamsingh,
senior partner at KPMG who had contracted Hures Consulting, kept up his efforts
to poach her. A few meetings down the line and three levels of interview, led
KPMG to put forth an impressive offer. An offer that my mother found
attractive. After much deliberation, she decided to quit E&Y and join
KPMG India on September 19, 2005.
Around
the same time, she was also approached by another competitor. As my mother had
made up her mind about KPMG India, she communicated the same to the competitor
firm. However, the partner who made the approach provided a word of caution. My
mother did not pay much heed to this at that point of time. However, in one of
her final meetings before accepting the offer, she did speak to the accused,
Vikram Uttamsingh and he assured her that they have consciously hired more
women and he was confident that this would also bring in inclusivity, diversity
and sensitization. Feeling assured, she took up the offer and once again changed
gear. She joined KPMG India as a Director in the Due Diligence Practice in
the month of September 2005.
What followed in the 14 months at KPMG India has been
unprecedented for her. It left my mother baffled and shaken. There were Instances
after instances of acts that would legally qualify as ‘sexual harassment’. It
affected her right to work with dignity. Instead of steering the work culture
to ensure that women were made to feel secure, it was expected out of the woman
to ‘accommodate’ and behave like ‘a team player’. They were expected to enjoy
the jokes passed off as ‘office banter’. Dissenting against any of this
behavior would be considered ‘ thin skinned’. From the perspective of my
mother, who was outside of this ‘men’s club’, the environment can be best
described as unwelcome, hostile, humiliating, indecent, perverse and
misogynistic. Whilst KPMG India in it's own submission stated that it had made
efforts to remover her performance manager but she continued to be in the same
department headed by the same perpetrator and who had full control on her
appraisal. He wrote a comment on May 2, 2006 - 4 days before on her
interim appraisal was actually held on May 6, 2006 (saturday) that my mother
was accusatory in nature and had difficulty working as a Team. The same person
had send out welcome mails to various clients when she joined in September 2005
stating that my mother had joined KPMG India alongwith a small Team. To this a
few clients also responded congratulating Mr. Vikram Uttamsingh for snaring a
good resource and that they look forward to working on new engagements. A
client also wrote to my mother that he was aware as his views were sought about
her work. In October 2006 (a month before her abrupt termination) 3 other partners with whom my mother had worked had send their
views on my mother's performance.
I have seen my mother in stress. If
she could not attend an internal training and gave more priority to a
client delivery or if she excused herself from a partner -
Director call meant to discuss internal issues as her phone was withheld
by the moderator in Training program that ( sponsored by the Company), she was labelled as 'lacking code of conduct and team play'. Such
efforts to humiliate and attack her and somehow make a case that she was
lacking code of conduct had intensified after she expressed her intent to
resign in October 2006.
She
refused to relent. She escalated the matter to an Oversight Board and sought an
independent inquiry. An expected backlash followed by way of an abrupt and
unjustified termination via email on November 30, 2006 after an email from one
of the Board member, Mr. Vijay Malhotra to her and the CEO of KPMG India
declaring her complaint as 'baseless and unfounded' and advising the CEO of
KPMG to take legal advice for making false allegations. Within five hours
of receiving that mail from Vijay Malhotra, she received her termination letter
duly signed by the CEO of KPMG India via email. She was shut out of the system.
A blank was drawn.
As long as my mother did not escalate to the Board, it was
all alright. But when she offered to resign on the grounds that she was unable
to cope with the indecent conduct, she was invited for a purported annual
appraisal and an attempt was made to coerce her to accept that she was low on
values and ethics. There were desperate efforts by the 2 partners – Mr.
Vikram Uttamsingh and Mr. Abizer Diwanji to constantly make a case that she was
low on values and code of conduct.
I
am stating these instances as the 'evidence' that my mother has submitted has
been caused to go missing from Women Commission and her writ petition 963/2008
was stalled by KPMG India's counter petition 1107/2008. My mother's Right to
earn her livelihood had a direct impact on my overall well being and welfare. My
mother had the Right to live with dignity in the society as much as the Accused
out on bail.
I
recall that a hard copy of the termination letter came by post and I received
it on December 1, 2006 . I read it and was pained. My question to her was that
what will happen to the house. She held my hand and said that no one can
destroy what we have build. I hoped it would be just the way that my mother had
thought it would be.
My
mother decided to serve KPMG India with a legal notice within 12 days of being
terminated, inquiring the reasons behind her abrupt termination and failure to
do an inquiry for the indecent and derogatory behavour meted out to her. KPMG
responded stating that they were not obligated to provide any explanation and
my mother did not have a right to seek any explanation for the abrupt
termination. On advice of her advocate, she escalated the matter to KPMG
International Ethics Committee, seeking an inquiry under the ‘hotline
reporting mechanism’. They acknowledged the complaint but responded
refusing to intervene on the ground that KPMG India was not within their
jurisdiction but also stated that they take all such matters very seriously.
Hence,
the argument often provided by KPMG lawyers – “she never made any
complaint or asked for an inquiry" needs to be verified with the evidence
that my mother has submitted to the investigating authority and also to NCW.
8. The “high profile” case plagued by cheap
tactics:
Having
pushed for, and exhausted all options, that were available within KPMG India
and KPMG International network, she spent the following few months,
deliberating and discussing next steps. Despite the termination, she had
positive conversations with competing firms and others, who expressed keenness
to bring her onboard. However, internally, she remained disturbed at the
humiliation she was made to go through. She decided to pursue her cause. The
moment she was clear about this and filed an official complaint of sexual
harassment against KPMG with Maharashtra State Women Commission (MSCW), a
quasi-judicial body, those who were evincing interest in having a dialogue with
her, backed off. It is important to clarify that my mother was keen to pick up
her career from where it was AND pursue the fight because it was her choice and
right to do so. However, the system refused to offer both choices to her, as
it often does with women in general (family v/s career).
In
those months of deliberation, my mother received a lot of active interest from
lawyers, journalist and women activists. Their words contained support and
filled my mother with hope. Everyone opined that due process should be
followed, and it also seemed like the most obvious thing to my mother. My
mother moved forward believing what was told to her and that she would get
justice.
At
no stage was she advised by her designated advocates to file a suit for
damages. Not even in 2010 when her advocates advised her to withdraw the writ
petition with liberty to prosecute the complaint before NCW, respondent no. 3.
At no stage, did NCW stated that it will not conduct an inquiry.
Everyone
including her advocates, journalists, activists directed her to the Women
Commission who had the right to conduct an inquiry. Her advocate who put in
motion the process to file a complaint with NCW and also the FIR was the
ex- chairperson of National Commission for Women between 2002 – 2005. She
had no reason to doubt the legal strategy or approach.
In
a complete contrast, after 11 years, my mother is being told by those who led
her on to this path that NCW is a toothless body and governed by political
appointees and interests. At no stage did NCW state that it has no right to do
an inquiry and even Bombay High Court in the order passed in August 2014 held
that NCW can inquire into individual complaints but cannot adjudicate. But who
had sought reliefs ? This is a ground for KPMG India's second writ petition
filed in November 2013 There was an averment made by KPMG India that it
was aggrieved by the order that NCW passed on October 26, 2013 to
adjudicate and give reliefs. My mother was not summoned for this
hearing. Instead, she was summoned for a hearing on October 25,
2013 held in New Delhi by News Broadcasting Standards Authority ( NBSA).
NBSA was hearing her complaint against a broadcaster for a program aired on May
22, 2013 in which her name was revealed and also wrong information was
disseminated that the criminal case against Mr. Vikram Uttamsingh was
quashed. NCW failed to give a copy of the NCW dated October 26, 2013
even under the RTI application dated December 12, 2013. The entire set of
certified copy of record and proceedings of KPMG writ petition given to my
mother in January 2015 also did not have a copy of the said NCW order dated
October 26, 2013. In February 2015, NCW declared the case files as Missing/
Lost/ Misplaced from the office of Maharashtra State Women Commission ( MSCW).
My
mother was compelled to approach Delhi High Court in May 2015 through writ
petition 5892/2015 seeking restoration of 'Lost/ Misplaced' case files
from NCW. NCW was issued notice by Delhi High Court in August 2015. It
filed an affidavit in Delhi High Court that it had mandated Mr. O.P. Chatwal (
retd DIG- CBI) to look into the case of second time missing files and name
those responsible for the loss of files for second time. The Chatwal
Committee submitted a report which was considered by Delhi High Court
in November 2016 naming the persons responsible for loss of original files
and also stating that no order was passed by NCW on October 26,
2013.
There
is silence of the media and of the activists and also NCW about the findings of
Chatwal Committee and proceedings in Delhi High Court in writ petition
5892/2015 and on the Due Process followed by my mother and the shocking Loss
of original divorce files from Chandigarh Court, case files from NCW/
MSCW and Bombay High Court.
There
is silence of the members of the second Inquiry Committee set up under order of
NCW dated March 21, 2013 though they have been named in the Chatwal Committee
report as Persons responsible for the purported Loss of case files. This order
was passed after the revision application of one accused was admitted in Sewri
Session Court on March 5, 2013 in which the delay was mis- stated as 46 days as
against the 5 years delay since the issue of process order dated December 15,
2007.
The
revision was withdrawn unconditionally by the accused in January 2014
whilst the writ petition filed by KPMG India seeking quashing of NCW Inquiry
was pending before Bombay High Court.
9. The Women Commission and
Police case used by KPMG India to reduce the complaint to that of State v/s
accused and sabotage of rights of victim :
On
advice from an advocate, my mother first approached the Maharashtra State Women
Commission (MSCW) in April 2007. The then member secretary of MSCW, Mrs.
Sanjvini Kutty, suggested to my mother’s advocate that it would be best to
approach National Commission for Women (NCW), who would be best equipped to
handle such a “high profile case”, (since it involved a MNC). My mother was
then directed to Advocate Purnima Advani (Chairperson of NCW from 2002-2005). A
complaint settled by her advocate was registered by NCW on June 2007.
By
virtue of the position that Advocate Purnima Advani held as the Chairperson of
the NCW my mother believed that she was fully aware of the functions and powers
of NCW. Further, Advocate Gayatri Singh led the the writ petition 963/2008
seeking an inquiry from the Women Commission. Even in February 2013, Advocate
Gayatri Singh asked my mother to file a writ petition seeking an inquiry and
send her a draft. But it was not filed as NCW made a announcement though the
media that it would complete the inquiry in a time bound manner.
It
is more than evident that it has never been desired that my mother should lead
the petition and if she had then she would be in control and there would be
transparency.
After
having registered the case in June 2007, NCW also advised my mother that a FIR
be filed against the individual perpetrators, without delay. My mother’s
advocate made an application for FIR to the Mumbai Police – Crime Branch. The
then Joint Commissioner of Crime, Rakesh Maria, took an opinion from the Public
prosecutor as it was referred by NCW and termed as ‘ high profile’. Based on
the opinion, NM Joshi police station registered a FIR under sections 354, 509,
34 of IPC against individual accused Vikram Uttamsingh,
Abizer
Diwanji, Aneesh Maloo, Avinash Vijayshankar in July 2007 and section 188 of IPC
against the CEO, COO, HR head of KPMG India
In
all forums, KPMG India submitted that it had set up a Vishaka Committee in
April 2007 headed by ex-Partner Mrs. Bhavna Doshi. In fact, upon receiving the
first complaint made to MSCW by my mother, KPMG India CEO responded stating
that he was shocked to read what she had gone through. The same CEO had signed
the termination letter on November 30, 2006. It is extremely important to point
out that, at no stage, did my mother receive any communication from this
committee that was supposedly set up.
My
mother was very clear that KPMG India and KPMG International had already shut
the door on her and declared her complaints as devoid of merit and hence, could
not have conducted a Trial after the verdict and be the judge and prosecutor in
their own case. The termination had broken the relationship of an employee and
employer. The setting up of the Committee was only to divert the inquiry by
Women Commission to itself.
The
fact remains that there was no communication from this purported committee, or it’s
members to espouse confidence that it was independent. In her official reply to
KPMG through her advocate, expressed that an ex-employer cannot reclaim his
right to hold a Vishaka inquiry having terminated her services, without an
inquiry and that principles of Natural Justice would be flouted in the
evening of doing so.
It
is important to state that even in the New Act of 2013 ( Prevention and
Redessal of Sexual Harassment Act at Workplace) it recognizes that in cases
where there is no lady senior to the complainant to head the Internal
Complaints Committee (ICC), and where the complaint is also against the
Employer, the case should be referred to the State Level Committee.
Hence,
KPMG India’s repeated insistence on having it’s own Committee was an eye- wash.
In
July 2007, an ex- colleague from KPMG India, Ms. Neha Karande approached my
mother on behalf of Mr. Aneesh Maloo that he had already tendered his apology
to an in- house inquiry conducted by KPMG advocates and hence wanted his name
removed from the FIR.
The
information was given to the investigating police officer to verify the
facts. But no action came to be taken.
In
August 2007 or so, KPMG India’s CEO and COO filed a criminal writ
petition 1445/ 2007 seeking quashing of the offence under section 188 of IPC
stating that it applies when there is a breach of order of a Public Servant and
that non- compliance of Vishaka guidelines is a direction under order of the
Supreme Court. The order in criminal writ 1445/2007 was reserved for almost a
year and was pronounced only on August 6, 2008.
In
September 2007 or so, the other accused Mr. Aneesh Maloo filed a criminal writ
1703/2007 which came to be withdrawn on October 4, 2007. In 2015, my mother
learnt that her reply in the matter was erroneously placed in another case
file.
In
the same period (July to October 2007), NCW conducted hearings. NCW perused the
written replies of NCW and the rejoinder filed by my mother.
On October 8, 2007 NCW transferred the case to MSCW to
complete the inquiry within 60 days and submit a report. NCW considered this step
considering that both parties and witnesses resided in Mumbai and it would
expedite the matter. MSCW constituted an Inquiry Committee headed by Mrs.
Susieben Shah and co-opted a member each from India Centre for Human Rights
and NGO – Majlis.
On same day i.e October 8, 2007 the accused Mr. Vikram
Uttamsingh was arrested by Mumbai Police in the FIR registered based on my
mother’s complaint through her advocate. Mumbai Mirror, the English daily that
reported the arrest on its front page but chose to expose my mother’s name and
identity. This gave way to derogatory, defamatory, abusive, offensive and
humiliating comments on their blog. The same were also replicated on other
blogs which were operated by groups usually advocating for men’s rights. The
comments got murkier and meant to incite voyeurism and sadistic pleasure.
Everything from my mother’s marriage life to her current state was up for
discussion and judgement. These weren’t just any trolls, they seemed
orchestrated and was an evil design to irrepairably damage my mother’s
reputation and image.
I was too young to understand everything that was
happening around me, but that front page story on Mumbai Mirror on October 9,
2007 with my mother’s picture and name, left me baffled in ways that I would
only understand, later. I always felt annoyed and angry and helpless when
questioned. I withdrew and my school was quick to recognize and respond.
At the housing complex, I was being bullied by the elder boys. I was unable to
communicate with my mother as she was going through her own fight to
survive.
It
is during the sessions with counsellor that made me aware that the event left
an indelible impression on my mind. I wanted to forget it but I could
not. In a passive manner, it was influencing me in many ways. I wanted to
protect my mother but I was helpless and remained an onlooker.
It
upset me that even the advocates who were representing my mother did nothing to
take action against such cyber attacks. It upset me that NCW did not take any
action though in many other cases, it is quick to take suo- motto action
against such trolls. In this case, NCW had every reason to intervene as cyber
onslaught started immediately after they registered the case of sexual
harassment and send it to MSCW for inquiry on October 8, 2007.
Around
the same time, the advocate who had taken my mother’s case to NCW abruptly
discharged stating that there is a conflict with the appointed counsel of the
other side.
To
me, it appeared that what could not be done directly as legal defence or within
KPMG by the accused, was being done through media and other platforms using
pseudo names and impersonating our friends, relatives, ex- colleagues and
neighbors to post comments. The Police did not register a cyber
case despite compelling evidence and affidavit of my grandparents that the
comments were false and baseless with sole intent to dissuade my mother from
pursuing her case of sexual harassment. The cyber police did not call for IP
logs to trace the real culprits. The cyber police did not investigate
into the email addresses used to post the comments. Most shockingly, the
investigating officer said that comments were not objectionable and no
cognizable offence was made out warranting a police investigation.
My
mother would often say that NCW, by having the FIR filed in her name made her
hold a double edged sword. In parallel, the cyber onslaught followed as a
backlash that she was a woman who wanted to have people jailed. The
Mumbai police failed to determine the motive and conspiracy of this crime. It
failed to connect the dots back to Chandigarh where the divorce had
happened and the case files had gone missing and talks of a case having been
filed in my name.
[
However, I read this news item where in a PIL filed by Adv. Purnima Advani
in 2015 seeking restraint on politicians from making derogatory remarks against
women. The PIL referred to derogatory, abrasive and misogynistic comments made
about the the Minister Smirti Irani's character and education by an ex-
Minister, Mr. Gurudas Kamat.
https://indianexpress.com/article/india/india-news-india/derogatory-comments-on-women-bombay-high-court-issues-notices-to-central-govt-departments-3045164/
Adv. Purnima Advani was advocate of my mother who advised
and led the process to NCW and also to file the FIR but did not take up the
cause when the arrest in the FIR led to launch of cyber attacks and given that
this happened whilst the matter was pending before NCW and Mumbai Police for
inquiry/ investigation.]
Whilst the above cyber abuse was launched from October 9,
2007, MSCW remained a mere spectator. Though 60 days were due to expire, there
was no action taken.
After reminder from NCW, a notice for hearing was issued on December 3, 2007.
On December 6, 2007 my mother received a call from Mrs. Susieben Shah who made
attempts to convince my mother to appear before KPMG in- house Committee and
offered to chair it. My mother requested her to proceed with the mandate. But
at every step, there was an effort by her to delay and drag the inquiry.
On
December 11, 2007 KPMG sought adjournment for 4 weeks and it was allowed by
Mrs. Susieben Shah.
On
December 14, 2007 a FIR was filed by our neighbor Mrs. Shetty at Mahim Police
station against one Mr. Rajat Bijur who had created lewd profiles of several
women and posted her number on a website exposing Mrs. Shetty to
unsolicited call. It is not known who are the other women who were exposed as
only the Police is privy to the information and evidence collected by it.
On
December 15, 2007 the police filed the chargesheet for offence under section
354 and 509 of IPC against Mr. Vikram Uttamsingh, Mr. Abizer Diwanji and Mr.
Aneesh Maloo. Mr. Avinash Vijayshankar was shown as ‘ Wanted’.
On
January 21, 2008 KPMG India appeared before MSCW but the minutes of hearing
were not shared. On February 25, 2008 a letter was send by MSCW with summary of
allegation of the complainant to KPMG India and seeking their reply. KPMG
remained silent. The member secretary of MSCW, Mrs. Vijaylakshmi Bidari
Prasanna expressed that only Court intervention can bring some traction as KPMG
India was not willing to submit to it’s jurisdiction.
The
term of the appointed Committee was due to expire. My mother preferred a writ
petition 963/2008 on April 8, 2008 seeking that the MSCW inquiry be expedited.
KPMG sought a copy of the minutes of the hearing held on January 21, 2008 which
was hurriedly faxed by the counsellor, Mr. Arjun Dangat to KPMG but no copy of
it was shared with my mother.
Disputing
the contents of the minutes, KPMG filed a counter blast writ petition 1107/
2008 on April 11, 2008 alleging bias against the chairperson and one Committee
member, Ms. Anagha Satpodar.
On
July 23, 2008 the matter was heard including the suggestion by KPMG that an
inquiry may be done by a retired Judge. The writ petition 963/2008 was admitted
and an order was passed directing the Maharashtra State Women Commission
to complete the inquiry within six months as per the terms of reference in the
NCW letter dated October 8, 2007 and submit a report.
It
was held that no case of bias is made out and the request for stay sought by
KPMG India in it’s writ petition 1107/2008 was rejected. KPMG India challenged
the interim order in special leave petition 20416/2008 in the Supreme Court.
Since then, nothing has been allowed by way of an inquiry
except to keep the matter pending in writ petition and special leave petition
which cannot look into the merit of the case. During such pendency the case
files in Women Commission went missing. My mother continued to be subject to
cyber abuse and harassment.
9. What never came to be seen and
played in the background :
It
is shocking that over last 11 years, there is a similar pattern in the
manner in which her case files were declared as ‘Missing’ or ‘ Not Found’
when she asked for certified copies - be it the original divorce files from
Chandigarh Court Or from National Commission for Women, Maharashtra State Women
Commission and the Bombay High Court. The 2 writ petitions that she filed –
963/2008 seeking that inquiry by Women Commission be expedited And the criminal
writ petition 2928/2013 to expedite criminal Trial and had compelling evidence
were caused to be withdrawn or disposed directing her to another forum.
Anything
that my mother had to seek or ask or submit was diverted. However, the
investigating police and the high - powered Inquiry Committee comprising of
advocates in the Women Commission did not connect the dots.
Most of what I write here is also covered by TOI in 2013 –
2014 by a journalist Ms. Clara Lewis. But behind the scene developments are not
known
to readers including the abrupt discharge of advocates and who have
refused to address pertinent queries raised by my mother to facts that came to
her knowledge after she took charge to appear in person in early 2014 and also
took inspection of case files and in particular missing replies and submissions
affirmed and given for filing. As per the Bombay High Court Registry, these
were not taken on record for reasons which are not known to my mother.
The
behind- the- scene activity being uncovered was seen as such threat that the
cyber attacks which till then were abusive and derogatory comments
assumed a larger proportion to that of identity theft and gross invasion
of her privacy to somehow break her down and destroy her reputation.
Whilst
the orders in the writ petition are for all to see but what happened behind the
scene would never been known to the outside world.
The first writ petition 963/2008 filed on April 8, 2008
was countered by KPMG India with a writ petition 1107/2008 filed on April 11,
2008 based on a ground that minutes of hearing held on January 21, 2008 were
not recorded properly
and that KPMG with their counsel had appeared under protest. The
minutes were NOT signed by any member of the Inquiry Committee or Member
Secretary. It was signed by the counselor – Mr. Arjun Dangat and faxed to
KPMG on April 10, 2008 but no copy sent to all concerned and affected parties.
Mr. Arjun Dangat was also the person who briefed the pleader appointed by MSCW
and affirm the affidavit filed by MSCW in Bombay High Court and Supreme Court
as respondent in writ petition filed by KPMG. His appointment and conduct has
been a subject- matter of scrutiny and disciplinary inquiry since beginning, as
informed by various employees of the Women Commission. His services were
abruptly dismissed by MSCW on December 31, 2015 before the Chatwal report was
submitted to NCW on April 7, 2016 which named Mrs. Niramla Samant Prabhavalkar
and others as being responsible for loss of original documents.
On
July 23, 2008 writ petition 963/2008 was admitted and the MSCW was
directed to complete the inquiry within 6 months and submit the report. KPMG
India’s writ petition 1107/2008 was tagged with it and their request for stay
was rejected as no case of bias was made out against the Inquiry Committee
members. However, an advocate present in the Court room had asked the
member of the Inquiry Committee Ms. Anagha Satpodar to recuse on July 23, 2008.
To fill up the vacancy, an advocate also from NGO - Majlis was inducted
though there was already a member from same NGO since December 2007. KPMG India
through a letter to MSCW and NCW dated August 22,2008 alleged that Majlis
was an organization that was ‘ feminist’ and referred to an article of 2003
written by Ms. Geeta Seshu to support their alleged bias. This was a ground to
go to Supreme Court.
KPMG
India challenged the interim order dated July 23, 2008 in the
Supreme Court in special leave petition 20416/2008. In the first hearing KPMG
counsel sought time to have a dialogue with other side counsel. When my
mother’s counsel pointed out that there were material concealment and that
notice should be issued, a reference was made that she should not always think
like a ‘ Feminist’.
The
word ‘Feminist’ had become a key word in this round of the litigation. In the
second round in 2014, the key word was ‘ reliefs and adjudication’. To lead to
the key word, it appears that the cause of action was created. Just as my
mother’s abrupt termination was arising from a legal advice that KPMG CEO was
advised to take by the Board member Mr. Vijay Malhotra.
Supreme
Court stayed the MSCW inquiry and send the case back to Bombay High Court in
April 2009 as the SLP challenged the interim order. My mother found that
adverse orders were passed by the Registrar of Supreme Court which were
not uploaded on the website of the Court till she escalated the matter. These
orders were wrong as regards service being incomplete to Respondent MSCW and
that my mother as Respondent no. 5 had not filed the reply within the mandated
period of 3 weeks. Actually, the service was already completed to all respondents
no. 1 – 4 and 6 on October 31, 2008 itself and my mother had filed an affidavit / reply on October 21, 2008 itself but the
Department was not able to locate it.
At
no stage was it disclosed to the Supreme Court by Respondent MSCW that the term
of the MSCW appointed Inquiry Committee had expired on November 30, 2008 itself
and hence the plea for stay on the MSCW inquiry proceedings based on an
allegation of bias against the members of the Inquiry Committee was not valid.
MSCW remained without a Chairperson and Board thereafter since July 2009 or so
on account of assembly election. Had this been disclosed, would the order of
the Supreme Court be different on April 6, 2009 ?
In
May 2009, my mother’s advocate Gayatri Singh send a letter to NCW with a copy
of the Supreme Court order dated April 6, 2009 and that the matter would be
listed shortly for final hearing before Bombay High Court. However, soon
thereafter, she discharged from the case expressing certain difficulty. In
2015, under in a reply under RTI from Bombay High Court, it is stated that the
vakalatnama given by mother to Adv. Gayatri Singh is not on the record.
This was the second instance of abrupt discharge by her
appointed advocate who had steered her through the process of going to
NCW and which she followed, diligently in trust and faith.
My
mother had to appoint new advocates. In November 2010, KPMG
writ petition was dismissed as ‘infructuous’. Based on legal advice and in
consultation, my mother withdrew her writ petition 963/2008 with liberty to
prosecute the complaint before NCW. KPMG India did not challenge the order in
writ petition 1107/2008 at any stage.
[ In 2015, we learnt that my mother’s affidavit dated
October 12, 2010 and the affirmation register itself is ‘Missing’ and the
written submission made by her new advocate was ‘ not taken on record’ and
hence certified copy were denied ].
In
March 2011, NCW confirmed that the case was pending before them and send back
by MSCW in December 2010.
In
October 2012, Mumbai Mirror deleted the news item dated October 9, 2007 with my
mother’s name and photo. It merely stated that inconvenience is regretted.
In
November 2012, the Mumbai cyber police moved for an order to block the
defamatory blogs that were appearing on certain websites identified by my
mother and brought to her knowledge by the residents of the housing society
where we resided.
In
early January 2013, the defamatory blogs were blocked. This was followed by TOI
expose on January 24, 2013 alongside the news on recommendations by Justice
Verma Committee on changes in the laws related to crime against Women. The TOI
Impact led to an announcement by NCW that it had found the case files and start
an Inquiry which will be completed in a time bound manner. On the same night,
my mother received a call from a TOI journalist who said that NCW member, Mrs,
Nirmala Samant Prabhavalkar is responsible for the State of Maharashtra and
Goa.
[ BEHIND THE SCENE – A RTI application was filed by
my mother with Women and Child Ministry seeking status of inquiry against the
political appointee in MSCW for sabotage and threat. This RTI was forwarded to
NCW in mid- January 2013 seeking action report. Instead, NCW announced at back
of the TOI expose through news item dated January 24, 2013 that it would
conduct inquiry into my mother’s case having found the case files. ]
On
March 21, 2013 NCW passed an order appointing an Inquiry Committee headed by
Mrs. Prabhavalkar to conduct an inquiry and submit a report within 60 days.
My mother came to know about this order only under a RTI reply dated
September 30, 2013 as she wanted to know the scope and terms on inquiry. This
order was passed by NCW on March 21, 2013 only after a revision filed by an
accused was admitted by Sessions Court in Mumbai and just before the scheduled
hearing of March 22, 2013 by the Metropolitan Magistrate Court at Dadar where
the chargesheet filed by NM Joshi Police station on December 15, 2007 and bail
being granted to the accused. It was only after the TOI news item in January
2013 that the accused resigned from KPMG India.
In
May 2013, my mother received a few calls from a public officer acting on
request from the accused who had filed the revision seeking a mediation to
settle the matter. I am privy to this fact and also a message that was
send by the wife of the accused sharing her number with my mother. My mother
did not call her or the accused at any stage. My mother declined the
offer.
In
mid- June 2013, just before the scheduled hearing of revision application by
Sessions Court, a news item appeared giving the names of the members of the NCW
appointed Committee. At the hearing held in Sessions Court on revision
filed by the accused, the advocate of the accused on being prompted by the
accused and his wife, made some vague reference about the character of my
mother and that my grandparents should be called. This was objected by the
pleader. As the objections were not noted, a complaint was made to the
Registrar and also a transfer application which was heard and an order passed
in July 2013 and the matter was transferred to another Sessions Judge.
This was the first time my mother and me began to wonder
about the role of my grandparents who otherwise were in touch with post divorce
and had also personally visited Mumbai in May 2008 and also in 2011 and had
given their affidavit which is in custody of the cyber police ( PI – Mukund
Pawar in cyber cell and Sr PI Mr. Nandkishore More in cyber police station)
since May 2008 but they have never been summoned. This is also part of
the chargesheet filed by the cyber police on August 19, 2014.
KPMG India has been stating that Principal of Natural
Justice was not followed. The fact remains that my mother as the complainant
was being deprived of her right to present witness statements and evidence and
when she did, they went missing repeatedly and no inquiry was conducted by the
either MSCW/ NCW despite direction of Women and Child Ministry, New Delhi since
March 2010.
10. 2013 – 2014 second
round of NCW inquiry having found the case files and again Lost in 2015 after
quashing of NCW inquiry :
In
November 2013 after taking inspection of documents at NCW and MSCW, KPMG India
rushed to the Court aggrieved by an order passed by NCW on October 26, 2013 to
amend terms of reference and adjudicate. In this hearing my mother was not
called upon to be present.
Instead,
a hearing was fixed in New Delhi by the News Broadcasting Standards Authority (
NBSA) on October 25, 2013 as regards a complaint that CNN – IBN had aired a
program ‘ Face the Nation’ on May 22, 2013 in which again my mother’s case was
referred and that criminal case against Mr. Vikram Uttamsingh was quashed. An
order was passed in this case on January 6, 2014 directing CNN- IBN news editor
to tender an apology for revealing the name and to remove all links to the said
program.
Having
taken inspection of all the documents, KPMG India rushed to Bombay High Court
against NCW aggrieved by an order passed by NCW on October 26, 2013 to amend
terms of reference and adjudicate and give reliefs. No copy of this
order was annexed. No service was given or proof of service called for. No
objections were recorded by the Registry which listed the matter. No copy
of the order was given to my mother by NCW even under an application dated
December 12, 2013 under RTI.
My
mother was represented by an Advocate recommended by a journalist, Ms. Geeta
Seshu who extended active help and even visited our home to meet my mother in
mid - 2014. NCW’s legal officer – Mr. Singh made calls from the NCW NRI cell
and sought names of advocates in Bombay who they can brief. My mother asked Ms.
Geeta Seshu and she suggested couple of names except those who was remotely
associated with this case in the first round of litigation ( 2008 - 2010).
However,
on January 8, 2014 when matter was listed, another advocate came to my
mother and asked for a copy of the writ petition of KPMG India stating that NCW
had asked him to represent them. My mother informed him that NCW already had an
advocate and someone from NCW legal team was in touch with him.
[
This advocates was aware of the first around of the litigation. He was
present in the Court room on July 23, 2008 and had suggested that the the
member of the Inquiry Committee, Ms. Anagha Satpodar recuses. ]
Thereafter
the matter was listed on several dates but either the Board was discharged
or adjournment was taken by the other side, a fact that can be verified
easily from the record. On my mother’s insistence, the Court sought copy of the
NCW order dated October 26, 2013. On March 26, 2014 NCW legal officer submitted
fax copy of the minutes of the hearing affirmed by her as ‘ True’ but copy of
the NCW order dated October 26, 2013 was not produced by NCW. .
On the next date i.e April 23, 2014 my mother had a
taken ill and her RBC count fell to a dismal low of 7. She had severe pain. She
was advised bed rest of 3 weeks. My mother sent an adjournment application to
the KPMG advocate who responded that they had seen the medical certificate and
would take a date post vacation on June 24, 2014. On request of my mother and
with help of Mr. Bhagvanji Rainiji who offered to help me, I went to the Court
and handed over the application for adjournment. But the other side took a u
–turn and insisted upon being heard and was allowed. I was told to take notes
so that my mother could refer to it and argue on next date. The matter was
argued for 2 hours and not being a law student and being my first visit,
I struggled to keep pace and follow the argument. Moreover, there were
references to cyber complaint etc which upset me. In the first ever visit to a
Court and being caught in this awkwardness in a room full of advocates and with
no support from anyone, I felt a sense of helplessness. I raised my hand to
counter but was not allowed to say anything except to hear, note and hand over
to my mother.
It angered me that my mother was going through all such in
last 8 years and had never shared these aspects with me. I wrote a narration of
the events of that date and it was sent to the gender sensitization committee.
There was no revert. There was lot of calls that my mother received from some
lady advocates in Bombay and Delhi to dissuade my mother from making any
complaint and seeking a transfer from the said Court.
Thereafter,
a chamber hearing was held on June 13, 2014. KPMG India CEO under
an order by the Court dated June 13, 2014 met my mother in July 2014. In the
interim, her email was compromised on matrimonial website exposing her to
unsolicited mails and phishing. The original case files went missing from June
27, 2014 till found on July 3, 2014 and sent to the chamber of the Judges as
there was a hearing on July 4, 2014.
Whilst
KPMG India CEO started with an expression to resolve and was optimistic to
resolve, in parallel 3 other persons including 2 advocates called my
mother seeking to take the mandate to talk to KPMG advocate and also to help my
mother get a job.
The
talks with KPMG India fell through with no offer being made by KPMG India. The
NCW inquiry was quashed by an order dated August 8, 2014 giving liberty
to pursue criminal and cyber case – police cases (State vs the Accused).
On
August 19, 2014 the MSCW legal officer resigned and who was the appointed
custodian of the case files that NCW had kept in MSCW office. On same day, the
Mumbai cyber police filed a chargesheet in Mumbai Magistrate Court naming one
Mr. Ramaswamy. My mother was made aware about the chargesheet being filed only
after 5 months i.e in January 2015. This would raise a question about Right,
Liberty and Remedy of my mother in the police case ( cyber or criminal) which
was noted in the order quashing NCW inquiry.
Though
my mother never asked for anything but an inquiry, there was a ground made that
NCW passed an order on October 26, 2013 to adjudicate and give reliefs and used
to file a writ petition seeking quashing of NCW inquiry in 2014 ( 7 years after
having registered a case).
But had anyone seen the order dated October 26, 2013 ?
In
September 2014 was a notice pay cheque with 7 years of interest stating that as
she had expressed her desire to settle and that in the past that had written to
her Advocate Gayatri Singh to collect the dues. My mother has returned the
cheque with a detailed letter.
11. NCW’s hide and seek game over case
files – who has benefitted :
The
NCW declared the case files as ‘Missing’ in February 2015 after the
Central Information Commission directed NCW to provide the information sought
under RTI application dated October 12, 2013.
This
fact was personally informed by the Chairperson of National Commission for
Women who send a message to my mother on January 31, 2015 , reproduced below.
“ NCW – CP
Text : Minkashi, GM. I am in Mumbai today. Are you here ?
If so, please call me asap.
Lalitha Kumaramnaglam. Chairperson – NCW”. 31.01.2015.
9.37
She
informed my mother that as she was in Mumbai and that she would like to meet
her at MSCW office where the files were kept and seen last. But later asked her
to meet at Worli. She assured my mother that she would take up the matter
about second time loss of files from office of MSCW at the highest level as it
is very serious. She also apprised my mother that she was scheduled to meet the
ex- CP of NCW in 2002- 2005. My mother told her that she was her advocate who had
set the motion of NCW and FIR into process and later recused citing conflict
with the appointed counsel by the other side.
However,
it appears that much of the instances that were created whereby my mother was
summoned or approached by others expressing that they wanted to help her cause
/ cause of the Institution are being portrayed as if my mother had approached
and sought favour to facilitate settlement/ offline closure.
My
mother approached advocates who are seen to be activists and public spirited
and are aware of her case and fight. They dissuaded my mother from challenging
the Bombay High Court order of August 2014 in the Supreme Court. As
NCW declared the case files as Lost, the matter was diverted to Delhi
High Court by way of a writ petition 5892/2015 seeking restoration of Lost case
files and also a copy of the NCW order dated October 26, 2013. In this case
also, her advocate recused after an order was passed on August 19, 2015 to
issue notice to NCW. My mother argued her own case till the end.
The
accused moved a criminal writ petition 1222/2015 in Bombay High Court in April
2015 seeking quashing of the criminal case which as per the order of same Court
had quashed the NCW inquiry giving liberty to pursue the criminal case and
cyber case.
In
the criminal writ 1222/2015 that was filed in March 2015, the Registrar
General of Bombay High Court made a reference in September 2017 that in a
police case the original informant is not required to be heard and it is
between the accused and the State and the prosecutor. Thereafter, the
matter was kept for August 2, 2018 and on which date, we were informed that the
case files are not found and the department is looking into the matter. The
CMIS shows the next date as September 19, 2019.
Neither
the police station or the investigating officer or the pleader are willing to
say anything.
As
regards the writ petition 5892/2015 in Delhi High Court, a Fact Finding
Committee was set up under Mr. O.P. Chatwal ( ex- DIG, CBI) to determine the
cause of the loss of files and those responsible for the loss and sabotage. The
Chatwal Committee submitted a report to NCW in April 2016 and Delhi High Court
took cognizance of it in November 2016. The report said that no order was
passed by NCW on October 26, 2013 and hence no copy could be given under RTI
application dated December 12, 2013.
On
July 19, 2017 Delhi High Court disposed the writ petition giving 12 weeks time
to NCW to implement the findings of Chatwal Committee. In February 2018 and
again in July 2018, NCW wrote to my mother that ‘ it did not wish to take any
action and that much time had elapsed and ex- members had left’.
Can this be the outcome for having followed a course
backed by legal advice
All
this is not only heartbreaking and disturbing. It has puzzled me that almost
all her advocates and advisors wanted her to pursue the criminal case knowing
that the case is State vs the Accused and the original informant is left at
mercy of the State and the Pleader but did not want the NCW inquiry to proceed.
Though
my mother never sought settlement, the entire push was to settle offline. In
June 2014 when KPMG India CEO expressed interest, he was advised not to and
allow criminal case to proceed and NCW inquiry came to be quashed.
To
ensure that she can be represented, at her own costs my mother appointed a
special PP in the Trial Court . Soon thereafter, the accused moved a criminal
writ 1222/ 2015 in Bombay High Court and in good faith, the same special PP was
appointed in the Bombay High Court. But he discharged from the matter in April
2017 which fact came to be known by my mother from Law & Judiciary in June
2017.
It
is strange that the reason for discharge is ‘differences with the
original informant’ or ‘ trust deficit’ when the
pattern of such discharge by advocates and timing would cause anyone to
wonder.
Surely,
my mother’s ability to maneuver and cut through the evil designs in name of
legal defence makes her a difficult person to deal with.
I am inclined to quote here what the Investigating
officers in the criminal case and cyber cases have said at different
point of time in last 11 years :
·
One of them said that the whole process revolves around 3 Cs. – Compete
and if cannot win, then confuse and if that fails than
character assassinate.
·
Another said that did I join the Police for this ?
·
A few said that we are trying our best to help but we are too
small in the bigger scheme of things which was termed as the conspiracy.
·
The lady in the Registry often said in my presence that Lawyers
have created a web in trying to hide one wrong.
·
When my mother followed up on a complaint the Law& Judiciary
also said that it is all done by the lawyers.
·
The Judicial Registrar also made similar comments last year
in September 2017.
The
question that anyone would ask - If everyone from NCW and Police known the
cause and source, then why is no action has been taken against those who have
caused the sabotage and unleashed a cyber attack on us ?
12. Harassment, Harassment and more
Harassment since 2015 :
KPMG
India is voted as the Best Place for Working Mothers and probably that was also
a key influencer for my mother to make a career shift but what she endured was
a contrast.
To
those who have branded my mother as a False Complainant, have not even seen the
complaint.
And
if #MeToo started in USA and creating a stir here since September 2018, it
should also be seen that even as my mother spoke up in 2006. Since 2011 there
are 2000 women who are fighting a class action suit against KPMG USA for
systematic gender harassment and discrimination.
Since
2015, my mother's email have been hacked and fake profiles have been
created using her email and mobile numbers. Recently, even my mobile
number was added to a third party with my phone receiving all kind of alerts
and notifications. There have been threats and varying degree of harassment.
And amongst all this my mother remained unrelenting and maneuvered through the
system to make way and cutting through the legal strategy of the other side.
The
cyber investigation also revealed that her email has been compromised ever
since she filed complaint with NCW and despite having all the details the
Police has been quiet.
Her
efforts were not considered as ‘Brave’. Instead she was labeled as anti-
establishment, undesirable and crazy. One has got to be crazy to withstand a
fight for 11 years as what was at stake was her identity.
And all that the senior inspector of Mumbai Police had to
say is that she should change her name. She asked why ? They said that as it is
much abused and targeted.
Or is that the identity thief has achieved the end –
purpose of such theft ?
Can this be the outcome of following a Due Process as per
legal advice ?
To
be made remediless for having followed legal advice. To strip a victim of an
identity of her making.
Instead
of acknowledging that my mother has been able to cut through the web created in
name of legal defence, my mother was subject to an environment of paranoid
to somehow prove that she is hallucinating.
Our
retort to this is that those who used fabricated documents need to elucidate
and look inwards if they were indeed facing the reality – the reality that they
had lost the game long back.
Such
a battery of lawyers to put down one lady whose complaint is branded as ‘
False’ since 2006. To character assassinate at back of Missing divorce files is
a real cheap ploy.
13. The questions that NCW needs to answer
:
NCW
having registered the case to do an inquiry and which was also upheld by the
Court in orders passed in July 2008 and November 2010, why did it allow a
new cause of action in 2013 through an ( alleged) order passed by NCW dated
October 26, 2013 per KPMG India ?
NCW
did not reply to the RTI dated December 12, 2013 seeking copy of the NCW order
dated October 26, 2013.. Had it replied the order passed on August 8, 2014
would be different ?
Is
there any accountability of the institutions and the public offices even after
the Delhi High Court order dated July 19, 2017 directing NCW to comply with the
findings of the Chatwal Committee ?
In
July 2018, NCW responded that MUCH TIME HAS ELAPSED and EX- MEMBERS HAVE LEFT.
The delay and drag can be attributed to 2 writ petitions – First in 2008
which was dismissed as infructuous And the second in 2013 based on an order
that is concluded by Chatwal Committee as not ever passed ?
This
is how a lady at level of a Director with 12 years of experience was treated by
a company that has been considered as Best Company for Working Mothers.
On
January 12, 2018 the judicial members made an appeal to the Nation to Save
Judiciary.
My
mother is a victim of the same system as her case files have gone missing again
and again and lost in shadow cases with no right of say. To whom should such a
victim look up to ?
In
May 2018 Jigna Vora was discharged for her alleged role as key conspirator in
Dey murder case because the prosecution was not able to prove the case beyond
reasonable doubt. The media queried ‘who will return her precious years
lost’ due to the police investigation naming her as suspect.
But
why is there silence about Jigna Vora’s act of naming my mother on Mumbai
Mirror page and then calling my mother to apprise her of the abusive,
derogatory, humiliating and derogatory comments in sheer sadism and
insensitivity ? In this case, Mumbai Police did not name her as a suspect in
the chargesheet that they filed after a delay of 5 years and till date.
The
irresponsible reporting by Jigna Vora leading to vile, vulgar, offensive
and derogatory comments on media and internet blogs appear to be orchestrated
and was intended to create a perception for the benefit of the
accused. Jigna Vora knew this well as during her own Trial before
the Court she filed an application for in- camera proceeding. But here my
mother was repeatedly shamed and humiliated due to the revelation of her
identity by Jigna Vora on Mumbai Mirror front page on October 9, 2007.
If
invoking a right leads to such abuse of one’s identity and it’s theft and
hacking in violation of Privacy – is it worth taking the step forward !
The
defence of other side has been calling NGO members on the Inquiry
Committee ‘feminist’ ; use of word ‘adjudication’ by self created
cause of action to file writ petition when my mother has even declined an
offline settlement conveyed by officers and members of Women Commission and
those claiming to have been approached by the other side advocates AND now the
word ‘ Family’.
Who
is this Family being referred to ? I am her Family and I am writing
this.
Those
who stand by us are our Family.
My
mother's courage to have stood her ground and manuvered her way through despite
the opposing forces is commendable.
I
would like to end with this quote that my mother would refer to when I
deflected and this is how it goes :
"
A little boy and his mother were crossing a River ..
Mother
: Please hold my hand , son
Son
: No, Mom, you hold my hand
Mother
: What's the difference
Son
: If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let
your hand go but if you hold my hand , I know for sure, you will never let me
hand go ..."
My
mother has always held my hand through all the odds and challenges.
I
would like to refer to the newslink quoted above - " Women who do not talk,
also pay a price . Silence begets injustice. What is the way of breaking the
circle ? "
I
am making an appeal to help us in seeking an independent probe into
motive and conspiracy behind the 11 years of sabotage of justice through
repeated loss of documents from the Courts and NCW/ MSCW and the criminal
conspiracy behind repetitive identity abuse and identity theft to usurp
our Right to Life and Liberty.
[ I hope and wish that the right of any citizen to
express their views honestly will not meet any backlash as has been the
apprehension of many. And that my story will not be pulled down. It is my
story and my version of what I have endured and my mother as she chose to speak
up and having followed a Due Process as against #MeToo. None from the activist
groups have ever called me or my mother for this story. Instead, my mother was
told that she has fought long enough and she should let go. For whom does the bell toll ? ]
Prashant